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    Day 127: 15 pounds and a 4-week vacation, you say?
    Deborah
    • Jul 29, 2020

    Day 127: 15 pounds and a 4-week vacation, you say?

    First off, do NOT say anything about the lapse in my posts. I have no excuse. Other than it's busy raising two teenagers, maintaining a c...
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    Creating Innovators by Tony Wagner
    Deborah
    • Apr 9, 2015

    Creating Innovators by Tony Wagner

    CREATING INNOVATORS by Tony Wagner A must-read for all modern-day parents who hope to instill the qualities needed for their children to ...
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    Newsflash: Mom lets kids "own the tree!"
    Deborah
    • Dec 24, 2014

    Newsflash: Mom lets kids "own the tree!"

    Enthusiastic Kids: 1 Controlling Perfectionist Mom: 0 Actually, that zero is probably just one in a million (as in Mom: 1,000,000) but h...
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    #1: Don't Raise Sucky Kids
    Deborah
    • Aug 12, 2014

    #1: Don't Raise Sucky Kids

    I’m a woman at her best with a To Do list. I have itemized lists for my start-up’s success, the dream house remodel, Christmas presents t...
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    I'm not crazy: That fake snake was real!
    Deborah
    • Aug 2, 2014

    I'm not crazy: That fake snake was real!

    I’ve seen my future. I’m a senile old woman who gets kicked out of the nursing home because I keep scaring the other elderly guests with...
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    Gender Differences: The Wyle Coyote Effect
    Deborah
    • Jun 22, 2014

    Gender Differences: The Wyle Coyote Effect

    Here’s a short story about the difference between boys and girls. At dinner last night, my husband told our two kids the story of Larry W...
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    Working from Bed: How a sick mom does it
    Deborah
    • May 17, 2014

    Working from Bed: How a sick mom does it

    The inevitable occurred. I caught my daughter’s germs and I’ve been laid up in bed for 2 days. Now, I’m trying to launch a website in ...
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    Games with My 8-Year Old:  Name that Lady!
    Deborah
    • Apr 5, 2014

    Games with My 8-Year Old: Name that Lady!

    My Daughter: “Mom, of all the famous ladies alive now, who do you like the most? Me: “Oh, that’s hard to say.” My Daughter: “But if yo...
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    How to Juggle Work & Family: MEALS (Theory #12)
    Deborah
    • Apr 3, 2014

    How to Juggle Work & Family: MEALS (Theory #12)

    Okay. This time, I’ve really got it figured out. My sanity?! It’s all about the food. As a working mom, preparing & serving healthy m...
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    Be A Good Mom:  Sign your girl up for Computer Camp NOW
    Deborah
    • Apr 2, 2014

    Be A Good Mom: Sign your girl up for Computer Camp NOW

    Move over Malibu Barbie. HTML Barbie just bought some beach-front property and you’re getting evicted. The internet used to be limited t...
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    Profound thought delivered in kid-speak
    Deborah
    • Mar 24, 2014

    Profound thought delivered in kid-speak

    "I would like morning-time better if was at the night" -- my (8) year old son
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    Two Weeks of Movies:  I'm a good parent, right?
    Deborah
    • Mar 14, 2014

    Two Weeks of Movies: I'm a good parent, right?

    Confession Coffee Hour. During their two week Spring Break, my children did not visit one museum, complete any big art project or experi...
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    Wear Glasses.  Punch me in the Arm.  Ah, parenting!
    Deborah
    • Feb 28, 2014

    Wear Glasses. Punch me in the Arm. Ah, parenting!

    My son is 7 years old. He forgets that toilet paper shouldn’t be totally unrolled for fun. He forgets that tennis balls shouldn’t be hi...
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    Itsy-Bitsy by Adele: That's the best idea I've had all morning!
    Deborah
    • Feb 12, 2014

    Itsy-Bitsy by Adele: That's the best idea I've had all morning!

    I just read in the LA Times that: “[Adele has been] focusing her musical output on her baby son, Angelo." ‘I’ve been out of the loop, re...
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    CHEATING:  Just say "No!"
    Deborah
    • Feb 6, 2014

    CHEATING: Just say "No!"

    I’m tired of all the cheating. Harvard kids working their take-home exams (Reuters 2/2/13). Teachers hiring proxies to take their cer...
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    Be Good.  Or Else.  Today's Internet Parenting Lesson.
    Deborah
    • Jan 17, 2014

    Be Good. Or Else. Today's Internet Parenting Lesson.

    Lesson #1: Be a REALLY good citizen if for no other reason than your past WILL come back and haunt you. In the reality of the internet, t...
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    Breaking News:  Kids make dinner & survive!
    Deborah
    • Nov 5, 2013

    Breaking News: Kids make dinner & survive!

    I’ve been working my way down my To Do list of “Not raising Sucky Kids” tasks – and last night, the kids made dinner. And yes, it was a ...
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    Children of Paradise by Lee Hausner
    Deborah
    • Mar 31, 2013

    Children of Paradise by Lee Hausner

    CHILDREN OF PARADISE: Successful Parenting for Prosperous Families by Lee Hausner Although this is officially "Out of Print," it's worth ...
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    Nurture Shock
    Deborah
    • Mar 14, 2013

    Nurture Shock

    NURTURE SHOCK by Po Bronson & Ashley Merryman A series of easy-to-understand essays that serve as a hotlist on how to raise your kids. ...
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    What's Going On In There?
    Deborah
    • Mar 1, 2013

    What's Going On In There?

    WHAT'S GOING ON IN THERE? HOW THE BRAIN AND MIND DEVELOP IN THE FIRST FIVE YEARS OF LIFE by Dr. Lisa Elio This is not the book for the i...
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